It is all about relationship

I recently had the opportunity to travel to the Sahtu, supported through regional sport funding from the Government of the Northwest Territories (Municipality and Community Affairs – MACA). These trips always stay with me. Not because of the programs or the plans, but because of the people. Because at the end of the day, it is all about relationships.

 

It is about how we show up in a community. It is about the time we take. And most importantly, it is about how we make people feel.

 

Walking into the hockey rink in Tulita, you immediately feel something. There is no pressure, no expectations, no complicated instructions. Kids step on the ice, grab a stick, and just start playing. They chase the puck. They fall. They laugh. They get back up. No one is telling them what physical literacy is. They are living it. That is the beauty of it.

 

Physical literacy is not a program. It is not a checklist. It is not something we deliver. It is something that happens when kids feel safe, supported, and free to move.

 

I found myself doing what I often do. Laying on the ice. Looking at the game from a different angle. Sometimes from above with a drone, sometimes from the side in layers of snow, and sometimes right there, at ice level.

 

When you take that time, you start to see more. You see confidence building in small moments. You see kids encouraging each other. You see pride, not in performance, but in participation. And you realize that these moments are not created by accident. They are created by people.

 

People like Chris, the local hockey coach, who shows up for the kids every day. Someone who understands the community, who speaks their language, and who creates a space where kids feel like they belong. That sense of belonging does not stop at the rink.

 

I was invited to join a team dinner. Everyone had a role. Setting the table, helping with food, making sure others were taken care of. There was laughter, stories, and a feeling of togetherness that is hard to describe, but easy to feel. And in the background, there was a table tennis table. Not perfect technique. Not official rules. Just play. Volley after volley. The ball flying off the table, still somehow in play. A mix of laughter, creativity, and a little bit of chaos. And somehow, someone always finds a way to score.

 

That is physical literacy too. It is messy. It is creative. It is human. Physical literacy is about giving people the confidence and motivation to move in different environments, in different ways, and with different people. It is about building competence, yes. But more importantly, it is about building connection. When kids feel connected, they stay active. When they feel supported, they try new things. When they feel like they belong, they grow. That is the real impact.

 

Trips like this are a reminder that we are not just delivering sport. We are creating spaces where people can discover themselves, build relationships, and feel part of something bigger.

Because this work matters. Not because of the activities we run. But because of the people we reach. We are not just building athletes. We are building people.